Welp, I just got out of school for the day, and oh boy. It was a crap day but at least I don't have any homework :/ Hah, and we were learning about leeches today.
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Oh wow,that's such a coincidence!I never did learn about animals when I was in school,only formulas and essays.Yeah,I hear ya,I felt that way sometimes after a day in school or camp but time will pass faster than you think,miss,so bear with it(and maybe try to enjoy it) and then,it'll be over.
Hah, thanks c: I hope it ends soon, I still have around 9 more years of school left (including college) and at this point the mention of school makes me want to break down in tears.
OMG GUESS WHAT????? :DDDDD
That sounds big!What is it?
OKAY SO SORRY I HAVENT BEEN ON AGAIN BUT I GET TO DECORATE MY WING OF THE SCHOOL FOR THE SPRING FAIR WITH TWO OF MY OTHER FRIENDS AND AHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!
Ah,it's okay,don't worry about it!Wow,that sounds fun!If you need an idea for a spring theme,you can use Snow White's forest theme and if anyone asks why there's animals,just say it's for the effect!
Thanks for the suggestion, but the teach gave us a theme already (animal kingdom) and I'm so nervous
Okay then but if you need any animal actors,you know who to call.
Ehehehee heyyyyy sorry for not responding lately ;-;
Thanks, I reLly need that to be honest :'D school has been terrible lately
You can talk about it,if you'd like.
Ah, I probably should talk about it. I haven't been eating/sleeping properly, it's getting harder to talk to friends and family and teachers. :/
Oh dear,is it school stress?
yeeeeep ;;
Are your classmates giving you problems?
Not as much as last year, but it's mainly anxiety.
Because of tests and exams?
It's a lot of factors. Friendship stuff, Tests, grades and clubs. Also all the art I'm
Working on.
Ah,it looks like you need to plan this all out.You can put them on a list starting with the most important task and then dealing with it first.It's best not to do more than one thing at one time as it'll stress you out faster than school.I am guessing that tests and grades is going to be first on your list,so maybe you can tell me the problems you're facing here?
I should talk about this, so if you don't mind, may I vent?
Feel free to talk about it.
Okay so I am very very very stressed rn, mainly because I feel like a horrible friend and how much schoolwork the teacher is giving us. Why do I feel like a bad friend?? Because if I'm not around them to cheer them up or calm them down or help them and solve their problems I feel live I've failed them. I know it's not healthy to do this to myself but I can't help it?? I haven't been eating/sleeping properly because of school and just trying to be productive at the cost of not taking care of myself like I should be. It's gotten to the point where I'm just locking myself away from everyone.
Oh dear,sounds like school is giving you a hard time(yeah,it's that time when my nightmare begins...)Okay,first,you shouldn't be so hard on yourself for not being there for your friends all the time as it happens to everyone.You sound like the caring friend that everyone in this world needs and that you'll do anything for a friend but sometimes,it's better to give them some space sometimes for two reasons.
Firstly,I know that while you have the best interest in helping a friend,it's better to take care of your own problems first(if they are important) as it will free up your capacity to help your friend/s more effectively.If not,you'll end up with more problems that you can take and that will not only harm your health and even your friendship.
Secondly,you have to first see if your friend's problem really does need the attention.If it's simple,do what you can to help.If it's not,explain to them why you can't(that you have your own important problems or that you don't have the means to help them),you know,tell them the truth.I'm sure that they'll understand(mostly) as real friends would but if they were to become nasty to you because of this,keep a distance from them as it means that they were only using you.If you failed to keep a promise,explain why(the truth again)and if you can,share with them your problems and maybe you all can come up with an idea to help your problems.After all,http://thumbs.dreamstime.com/z/problem-shared-problem-halved-message-recycled-paper-note-pinned-cork-board-concept-image-51988373.jpg
Yeah,school,the 'eternal nightmare' for most kids.Ironically,school is one of the places in which we have some of our most beautiful times-your best friends,your talents,your funniest moments but these times feel so far and few with all the work.I'm not sure if you've done it but maybe you can come up with a timetable to organize your tasks.I am not sure how long your school hours are or how many hours do you spend between waking up and going to bed(maybe you can give me an idea?)For me,I would give myself at least fifteen minutes to relax after coming back from school to take my mind off.You can do anything to get your mind off work(shower,eat,read,listen to music).Take the time you need to calm your mind down and now,you can plan.You can start a list of all your homework with the most important at the top.For every hour of work,give yourself a 5-10 minute break to break the boredom.Have at least seven hours of sleep as it's no use having to finish a day's work and waking up sleepy to another day of work and repeating everything over again.If you feel your teacher is giving you too much homework and that you've done your best,explain it to them that maybe s/he could extend the deadlines or maybe cut down the workload.(That's what my teachers told me,would you believe that?Hehe,they're not so evil as I think)
I am no expert in advising people but for you,my friend,this is all I got.You can talk to your friends,family or teachers about it and I'm sure that they will help you out of this as you shouldn't have to deal with your problems alone.Remember again,miss,:http://thumbs.dreamstime.com/z/problem-shared-problem-halved-message-recycled-paper-note-pinned-cork-board-concept-image-51988373.jpg
Take care and I'm glad you brought this up,thank you.
wow, thank you. This helps a lot dude :D seriously, I cannot thank you enough.
Ah,you don't have to,miss!You know what they say,a friend in need is a friend indeed.Just feel free to ask and I'll be happy to do what I can to help.
Your inbox is full, man.
Roger that,your Majesty!
officalrubix
!!! :O
God, if that happened to me I would have had a panic attack right on the spot. Haha, but at least you didn't get hurt ^_^
MchectorII (Updated )
Yeah,I still prefer a leech sticking to me but thank goodness,school straightened him up.There are ways to deal with people who do uncomfortable things to you.They are the hard,soft and the thinker's way.